The holiday season is a time to enjoy good food while spending time with the ones you love. However, a growing number of adults are choosing to spend their time alone, as many have intentionally gone “no contact” with their families. On a recent episode of Oprah Winfrey’s podcast, folks are sharing the reasons for this very choice, and social media had a lot to say about Oprah’s take.
Oprah, famously known for her influential conversations on “The Oprah Winfrey Show,” now hosts “The Oprah Podcast,” which recently featured a live audience episode titled “Oprah Explores The Rising Trend of Going No Contact With Your Family.” The open forum allowed individuals to speak candidly about their decisions to cut ties with their parents and other relatives.
“Maybe you all can relate to this growing phenomenon known as going no contact,” Oprah begins. “That’s when a person cuts off ties to someone in their family.” She goes on to share a statistic from Cornell University that “one third of Americans are actively estranged from their family members.”
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After hearing from a few audience members, Oprah adds, “Some experts believe that there is a shift in how the younger generation are protecting their mental health or their boundaries which have led to a silent epidemic.” She explains that for many, family relationships have become toxic, pushing them to distance themselves for the sake of their peace.
While the conversation resonated with many, others took issue with Oprah’s use of the word “trend,” calling it dismissive and even triggering for those who chose to go no contact, a decision that is often serious and often emotionally painful.
“For one, the word ‘trend’ was horribly, terribly irresponsible to continue to use in advertising this,” TikTok creator Nicki Alexia explained. “No one is going ‘no contact’ because ‘hmm, my parents pissed me off and I see other kids are doing it so let me do it too.’” She went on to say that positioning it as a trend feels dismissive and minimizes real emotional harm.
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